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| Me Made May, days 1, 2, 4-6: black chiffon top, Come to Feather dress, A New Hope dress (for May the Fourth!), Ariadne tunic, and casual Gatsby dress. |
It's been interesting seeing how pregnancy has been affecting my body, and therefore my sewing and wearing of me-made clothing. I think those of us who sew are probably more aware of our bodies than the average shopper; after all, we're trying to make garments that perfectly fit our bodies. This is good, because we end up with items that are tailored to our specific measurements, but the flip side is that when those measurements change, those perfectly fitted items really don't fit!
This was exactly the case with basically half my closet -- all those very fitted top, flared skirt dresses? Unwearable, and almost immediately*! While I pretty much expected that to be the case, what surprised me was the reason why they didn't fit. I thought my expanding waistline would be the problem, but instead, it was my expanding bust. Somehow, I missed the memo about growing almost two cup sizes while pregnant. It's been really weird for me; I always thought I'd be thrilled to have a larger bust, but now that it's happened, I feel almost as if I don't know myself anymore. Okay, maybe that's a little melodramatic, but stay with me here: all my life I've identified as a small-busted lady, and I've made the best of that by making a lot of dartless bodices that really only work if one is fairly small. Throw in society's messed-up evaluation of a woman based on her chest size, and even if I don't subscribe to it, it still gets in your head, you know? And now that I suddenly have cleavage, I'm all mixed up about my style because my signature items don't fit anymore. I was going to wear my beaded Gatsby dress (the quintessential gamine, flat-chested look!) to a fancy dinner two months ago and I couldn't get the slip on! Can I have a fashion-based nervous breakdown without sounding totally shallow?
*My Star Wars dress was the last fitted dress I was able to wear, and only because it had originally been quite loose. Even then, it was a tight squeeze. I'm pretty sure May 4th was literally the last day I could have zipped it up and still been able to sit down and breathe!
My fabulous Ursula bustier that I spent so long working on? A week after I took the photos, it didn't fit anymore...at the bust. I could still fasten the waist stay, but it wouldn't zip all the way up. I wanted to cry because it just seemed so unfair. Of course, once I hit month four, my waist did start slowly growing, so the bustier really didn't fit at all. I had to pack it away inside my costume trunk and hope that one day I'll be able to wear it again. Man, it's a good thing I have so many elastic-waisted, knit garments in my closet. The SHB is now the size of a pomegranate, so you can definitely tell from the side now. From the front, things still look fairly normal, or so I tell myself. My waist has always been my favorite feature, so I find myself alternating between denial and mourning as it slowly disappears...
All this to say, MMM14 has been a bit of an adventure, and I've had a couple of weekends of emergency sewing (I know, exactly what we're not supposed to do!) as I try to make more maternity-suitable clothing. I don't think I'm mentally adjusted to my changing body yet, though, so most of those makes have just been loose, swingy tops that aren't actual maternity tops. More on those to come!
Other sewing moms, how did you make the mental and emotional adjustment to your changing pregnant body? I'd appreciate any tips you have to share!
*My Star Wars dress was the last fitted dress I was able to wear, and only because it had originally been quite loose. Even then, it was a tight squeeze. I'm pretty sure May 4th was literally the last day I could have zipped it up and still been able to sit down and breathe!
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| Days 7, 8, 10, and 11: Golden Oatmeal dress, It's Hip to Be a Square maxi dress, unblogged tee refashion, and Japanese dress. Notice how these are all knit garments. |
My fabulous Ursula bustier that I spent so long working on? A week after I took the photos, it didn't fit anymore...at the bust. I could still fasten the waist stay, but it wouldn't zip all the way up. I wanted to cry because it just seemed so unfair. Of course, once I hit month four, my waist did start slowly growing, so the bustier really didn't fit at all. I had to pack it away inside my costume trunk and hope that one day I'll be able to wear it again. Man, it's a good thing I have so many elastic-waisted, knit garments in my closet. The SHB is now the size of a pomegranate, so you can definitely tell from the side now. From the front, things still look fairly normal, or so I tell myself. My waist has always been my favorite feature, so I find myself alternating between denial and mourning as it slowly disappears...
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| Days 12-14: Travel to Work dress, granny dress to maxi skirt refashion, Dulcie dress. Hurrah for elastic waists and belts! |
All this to say, MMM14 has been a bit of an adventure, and I've had a couple of weekends of emergency sewing (I know, exactly what we're not supposed to do!) as I try to make more maternity-suitable clothing. I don't think I'm mentally adjusted to my changing body yet, though, so most of those makes have just been loose, swingy tops that aren't actual maternity tops. More on those to come!
Other sewing moms, how did you make the mental and emotional adjustment to your changing pregnant body? I'd appreciate any tips you have to share!



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